Awww....poor baby! I understand that your hubby was understandably upset but he probably scared her so badly when he threw the flashlight and kicked the couch that she was traumatized! Yorkies are so strange in a way. They are totally fearless of some things they SHOULD be afraid of and yet can be traumatized by the littlest things! My Sassy will charge a Rottie with no fear but she is traumatized by a plastic bag rattling! One day she was literally shaking uncontrollably and it took me forever to realize why. I had a little plastic shopping bag hanging on a doorknob and the fan was blowing on it and made it rattle and she was totally freaking out! LOL! Go figure. I know it sounds cruel to crate them but it really is safer for them and I think they actually find security in it when once get used to it. I hope your hubby forgives her soon and I hope she isnt afraid of him now. Hopefully this will all blow over for you soon. You are not alone, I think most of us go thru this at one time or another. Best of luck to you and your furbaby.