Oh my, I'd definetly go without your daughter first. She will want him no matter what and you will know if he will actually work in your family or not. You couldn't possibly take her there to see him and then you not want him for some reason or another. Please let us know how this goes for you! I really really wish you the very best!!!!!! I also want to hear about how your daughter feels when she does get one (I hope it is this male, sounds perfect!).
