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Originally Posted by tammys

It is sad that they felt attacked - but that's how some other people who are still here feel. I don't think anyone needs to have breeding experience to feel offended or attacked.

So, the inexperienced people felt that the breeders were being rude? And the experienced people felt attacked by the breeders? I can see why this topic has been around for a while, and will most likely continue.



That being said, I realize that some OP's can also be rude and defensive, causing bad feelings all the way around.

In no way was I pointing fingers at one particular person or breeders.
My theory applies to everyone: Be nice.

Inexperienced breeders and nonbreeders would call them rude and so forth. I see your point but I also see when it might be needed for a breeder to be very direct and not beat around the bush.