Oh my gosh! Would you believe I actually forgot to same something? I can't believe I have anything left.
Again, sorry for all this writing. Apparently, I have finished the novel and I'm now working on a triology!
You said:
I think the big picture is often more important than the individual's sensitivity. But I wrote some of my reasoning in the other thread that seems to have spurred this one at least partially. I am not going to repeat my whole post here but instead link to the thread -- it is post #38 there
Please Help...Breeding questions from Newbie. See if you can see there might be another side of the coin after reading there.
Yes, in many instances you're right about the big picture and sensitivity, but when it comes to helping others, I don't think that would be true. If someone comes to this board for help and support, that is what they should get. I can't imagine that insensitive helpfulness would ever be helpful...plus it's just not necessary. It doesn't help anyone. In your post #38 you said:
"You very politely tell them what they should have done and then offer some ideas to help." -
That's all I'm talking about. Also, your post did not spur my original post. Mine was written before your reply.
Okay, NOW I'm going to bed. I wish I knew how to turn my brain off and stop thinking!