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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae i believe it was drugs, but he doesnt do them anylonger.. but
he's MARRIED. my feelings are so strong and we look at each other like,
you know...oh man, this is not good for me...we used to fight all the time,
but also love each other to death... why would god put us back? is it fate?
also didnt tell you that the day i saw him, i had on his sweatshirt that i havent worn in around 6 years... he said , hey gina, thats my sweatshirt isnt it. and he also had on a sweatshirt that i bought him.. how sick is that?. |
I am not a religous person, so when I say this, I say this b/c you questioned it. Why would God put you two back together? How about to test you as a human being? To see your reslove in doing the right thing compared to the emotional thing?
I believe in fate and that things happen for a reason. People do change as I am sure you have since your divorce. So allow yourself to be friends again, if you can handle ONLY being friends. Of course getting emotionally caught up with him while he is married is the wrong thing to do and if you feel yourself doing this, IMHO it sounds like you are, then distance yourself from him until you have a better grip on your feelings and can truly realize what it is you want for yourself.
Maybe it is meant for you two to come back together and maybe it is not. Everyone does deserve a second chance, just don't let that second chance break your happiness or your heart.
Best of luck to you no matter what you decide to do.
P.S. I do suggest you talk to him; nothing will be resolved for you if you don't. And if you decide that you don't want to persue anything now or later, let him know b/c if he truly cares about you, he WILL respect that w/o you having to plea for it.