my3angelbabies, tx for your reply. Right now I have a sherpa bag and my three complaints-too big, too soft and not stealthy enough. My husband begged me not to buy a bag that looks like a handbag so when I saw these I thought they might work. I'm worried that they will be too soft and too big. I might keep looking. I could order one and eat shipping both way if I need to return it but gosh that's a hassle. I'm not great at returning items - especially by mail.
Thanks again!