I read on a website ?. Ignore the pup for two days. I did it. She was paying my husband all the attention. I didn't look at her or talk to her. I didn't pet her even though she crawled in my lap. It was hard don't get me wrong. I only said what was necessary to her. She was used to sleeping in the bed with me but she slept in the kennel. It worked. Now I never let her enter a doorway ahead of me. I get my coffee fixed before she gets breakfast. I eat before she does. She treats me like I am top dog, even though she loves him.