Mardelin and bjh, Thank you both for the wealth of information! You are both wonderful.
Bella would stress if I left her in a room without me so I put the other animals in the bf's daughters room.
Bella seems to want Vit D from the sun. Last outing for potty she insisted on sunning herself for a couple minutes before I freaked that it is too hot for her outside (96 degrees) and I made her come back in which required me picking her up and carrying her because she wasnt ready to come inside
I am glad you both remember what it is like the first time. I will not be alone I have the bf and my son both GREAT supporters and care takers and then bf's daughter 11 who is a great cheerleader but she will not be present for whelp.
Thanks again!