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I usually make it like this - make 2 parts - first I make a knot to the ear side, the other part I backcomb ant then tie to the back part. end it with hair spray and put in the bow.
After an hour = she shakes and the bow skews and the hair get messed up....
what should I do to get the bow stand in its place and the hair no to mes up?
Thank you