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Originally Posted by maggiesmom_2007  Nancy I totally understand that part but to have some people make negative comment with every post they made and then when the OP posted pics of the dogs she got and updated us on what happened , these same people didn't even bother a i'm glad things turned out well for you. That is why i said what I said. There were alot of people that did give their opinions but they also gave congrats to. I am in no way criticizing you as it wasn't directed at you and I am sorry if you thought it was. I know most mean well with their advice but like I said not everyone is out to do you wrong. There are still some nice people out there. |
I didn't think it was critical of me specifically, but of all those who gave any type of warning. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be saying, that if we give a warning we most also, post congratulations, or people will consider us rude? Maybe some haven't posted because they've been busy, or didn't think a congratulatory post was as important as a warning post. She was getting lots of well wishes posts, I didn't think mine would be missed, or felt the need to add it, it didn't mean I wasn't happy for her! Gosh, I didn't even realize people noticed, if I didn't post back on threads. I'm just saying that we should give members the benefit of the doubt, and believe they are happy, about a happy ending.