For the peeing: I would wait him out. This is what I did with Thor. We had two marathon sessions where I took him out every hour and put him on his pad for five minutes. If sat or laid down, he went back in to the crate. I think it took him 40 hours the first time (I did sleep during the night, but otherwise, every hour), but once he FINALLY pottied, he figured out very quickly that the way to freedom was a potty on the pad.
You can put her food and water dishes in her crate so she doesn't starve while you are waiting her out.
Also, have you tried blotting her pad with some of her pee? The scent of urine often releases the floodgates.
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