Hey there. I am so, so sorry to hear about your little Jockey. I am also sorry I missed this thread, I haven't been on much lately.
Ranger was diagnosed with bilateral luxating patellas about two or three months ago. I was devestated. I spoke with my vet extensively, as well as doing a ton of research. I spoke with my orthopedic surgeon extensively as well, and we made the educated decision to go ahead with the surgery.
Here are my threads:
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...artbroken.html http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yor...er-update.html
Ranger was a grade 2/3 in his left leg I believe, and a 2 in the right. We obviously did both of them together, and I would have never done it any other way. Ranger has been a free man for about two weeks now, after eight weeks of confinement. I will not lie- the first several days were absolute hell and I questioned my decision hourly. However, each day got better and better. He handled being confined better than I ever imagined and is a happy, happy man now!
I decided to go ahead with the surgery for a couple different reasons. The number one being that Ranger is an incredibly active dog who absolutely thrives on some serious activity. I couldn't bear the thought of him being hindered in the slightest- his love for life and doing things made my decision easy. After speaking with our surgeon, he explained that the surgery and subsequent recovery does become much worse as the disease progresses. He wasn't nearly as bad as some, and was using both legs within days, with no limping. The surgeon also explained that if it is not fixed, arthritis can set in badly making the repair nearly impossible.
I am not trying to pressure you into having the surgery done, just giving you my reasons for doing so for Ranger. I would not have done the surgery for such a mild case if it was Ryder, as he is not active at all and would rather be carried outside than walk.
I think you need to look at the whole picture- if Jockey is active and thrives on activity, I think the sooner the better in his case. However, if he is a couch potato and could care less about running and playing, maybe wait.
Anyway, I am sorry this is so long. I just know it was people that have been through this that made it easier for myself and Ranger. Good luck and please keep me updated.