I think I might have the answer to this, based on my own recent experience. My neighbor has a 1 year old lab/border collie mix, who is very well-trained and has been socialized well at dog parks. My Missy, on the other hand, has lead a pretty sheltered life (another subject entirely - my fears more than hers). Anyway, when we were walking our dogs, and they met face to face, on leashes, Gemma just sniffed at Missy, and Missy laid down on her stomach, totally submissive. Gemma even rolled on her side, facing Missy, and Missy just jumped up and tugged on the leash to get away from her. Another day, same situation, Gemma being an angel, Missy being afraid. I picked Missy up, and all of a sudden from my arms sprang Cujo! She barked and snarled at Gemma - talk about a different personality! Dave explained to me that holding Missy up higher than Gemma made her feel superior, and also safe in my arms, so she felt free to give Gemma a piece of her mind. Obviously I don't want her to be this way, and luckily Dave and Gemma are patient enough that when we meet, they realize Missy is kind of just learning her manners and they're patient with her. Dave's thought really made sense to me. Maybe you'll find it applicable in your case. Good luck! |