I really didn't think it was harsh. I think you just let her know what his life has been like. Not everyone knows about these sorts of things. I didn't untill I came here. If a friend of mine replied to me with that email I'd think my friend was an awsome person for taking the little guy in. It would probably make me want to learn more and take one in myself.
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