it is when you go to pick her up. It started after our little scare with the neighbors dog. It isn't every time and I am really careful to tell her "uppy" before I just go and reach for her to pick her up but even with me she will tinkle a couple of drops and put her tail down like she is scared when you go to pick her up. I think it only happens when you pick her up. There are times that I have to pick her up though. I just don't know what to do. She is doing great with the puppy pads and training it is just this little scared thing. I am just sick that this happened with the neighbor dog to startle her so soon. When we first brought her home we had no problems what so ever with her being timid or scared or the tinkling thing. Any ideas on what I can do to help??? Do you really think that she will outgrow it??? Any suggestions at all to get her over this. I tried to do a search but couldn't come up with anything. I am just sick about it.