Brooke,
I'm so sorry for everything your little Tatum is going through! You are good parents and love her {{{{}}}}}! If you didn't care, you wouldn't be so emotional about all of it.
I had AprilLove in for a toofer cleaning about 2 months ago, and they found a baby tooth!!!! (She's 3 1/2) I was livid, mostly because I was like, why didn't they see the tooth when she was spayed at 7 months and had 11 puppers pulled then??!!! I felt so bad that I hadn't noticed it, but it was apparently being hidden by the adult tooth.
We just wanted to send out get better fast wishes for Tatum and hope the infection clears quickly and she can get back to feeling better!
Big huggles to all of you from Me and the furbutts