I understand where your at and I hope you have good susport. I babysit a little boy who is now 7 months olds. I babysit him once a week for a friend whos husband is unfortunatly in Iraq and he sounds ALOT like your daughter. It does seem to get easier as they get older and the Dr PROMISES the reflux will get better as he ages. I can do 1 day a week with this little one but I dont know how the moms do it day in day out. Its very hard. Never fear asking for help, all moms need and deserve it