Oh my!!! You sound like ME!!! I am due to bring my new baby home hopefully this weekend and I have been obsessing over her name!!! Every time I THINK I have the perfect name some one reminds me of so-and-so or says a nickname that I do NOT like and ruins it for me. I really wanted it to be unique yet "girly". We already have not 1 but 2 Bella's on our block which I loved the name Bella. Went from Paisley (I NEVER thought of Brad Paisley-I thought of the print) to Chloe (found out my sis-in-law's is Chloe and we DON'T speak) to Vada from the movie "My Girl" to Zoë. I also considered Hollis and I really liked it. Mercy was another one and IF she was a mix like a Morkie or Yorkie Poo it would have been Hemi-meaning half.
I have spent hours online at name sites!!! Once we bring her home I am wondering if Zoë will fit and I will stick to it? KWIM??? It is SO hard!! Harder than naming my children!!!