Thanks for all the responces. When I catch him, I calmly/firmly tell him no. Take him outside and Say "Rupert Potty" I dont want him to think its playtime, so I kind of ignore him, but I am calm, not mad or anything, and I just sit out there and wait on him.
 
The crate is about the right size, I hate putting him in there, but I cant give him free roam.. He is in the bathroom right now, floor is covered with potty pads and I have some quiet music playing for him so he isnt so bored/alone.  
I took one of his BM outside and put in in the grass, but he just sniffs it and walks else where, but I will try blotting some up immediately and taking it outside for him. I also live at an Apt complex, so there is frequent cars, and the birds chirp A LOT.. so maybe that could be the problem.  
I just want him to go OUTSIDE, i understand he wont get it right away, and that he will have accidents, if he can just go outside and learn its ok i would be so happy. When he did pee by the door i praised him and gave him  treats. But i didnt see it immeadatily as i was inside.  
After a couple min walking around in the grass, he just comes back up to my feet smiling, and i put him back in the grass and say potty, but never anything. I will keep with it though. Thanks for the responces. 
 
 
Oh and no worries about the she :P 
Sean