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Old 06-07-2009, 04:16 PM   #195
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Originally Posted by wee nan View Post
hi haleys mom, i am sorry if you find this offensive or think i am heartless. i really dont mean to be. i was saying , i beg to differ because, im sorry but i cant believe someone who just lost there mother,would even be reading the thread, (meaning YT would be the furthest thing from my mind) let alone posting pics. i know there will be people thinking bad of me for writing this, but i do believe it's what alot of people reading this thread are thinking, im sorry again, but im not a believer!
WRONG!! I lost my son 7 years ago. Sometimes the pain is so severe you HAVE to try and do something or you go downhill so fast. The mourning becomes so intense, which is why many go on a anti depressant. I think unless you've been there, no one should pass judgement. Everyone mourns differently, no two people mourn alike. I have been there done it. People thought I was going nuts with the things I was doing.
And I'm sorry if you find this offensive. I guess I can say I'm educating.
To the OP, I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your mother. Do whatever you need to do to help get you along with your mourning. Mourning has no time limit. 7 years later...I'm still mourning.
YT is a wonderful board. You get one person to say, maybe we're not getting all the facts or truth and the followers start. It is not just you. Some people just think always in a negative way. However those very same people can be the most helpful also.
How are the pups? Have they managed to thrive pretty good?



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