I'm so sorry you have to go through this, but I think sometimes our loved ones want to die without us watching. Both of my mom and dad died like that. I stayed with them night and day in the hospital, and when I finally had to go home for an hour they both just slipped away. Take comfort that he's in a better place, and it's never to late to say goodbye.
__________________  Susan, Piper ,Harley & Suiki |