Something is not right with what is going on with your little girl. If you had said one things about her going potty I would consider it an accident but you mentioned several different changes in her behavior all being out of her normal potty behavior. I would make a vet appointment as I think there must be some underlying cause to the change in her behavior.
**BTW Many years ago, my neighbors lab lifted his leg and peed on me
I was so
be the neighbor thought it was funny. He was MARKING me!