I've received a lot of good advice. I've already stared employing it this morning. I no longer let him have his spot on top of my recliner. He liked to get up there to look out the window where he proceeds to bark at anything that moves, birds, animals etc. jumps all around and goes crazy. I think he's protecting his turf. The problem is It's not his turf it's mine. I'm taking the house back!
Every time he gets ready to jump up I tell him NO in a firm voice. It seems to be working! He's hesitant about trying to get back up here. He's laying on the floor perfectly content by my feet. It is a lot more peaceful. I guess I thought it was cute before and didn't always correct it. I can see how I made him the alpha dog. Thanks for pointing that out.
I need to work on the separation anxiety issues. Do you think it will help if I keep him from constantly sitting on my lap and making him stay on the floor. If I can rid him of the biting and barking when someone leaves I'll be even happier. I'm not going to give up. I appreciate all the tips.
I won't use the crate for timeouts any longer. I'm so thankful for this site..
