vent let it out your girl looks like a girl to me LOL as for your Hubbys fear of looking femme
I live in a *looking for a PC word* Rual area where there are alot of ...sun taned necks
and some of the most rugged looking guys I know have yorkies and will shed a tear over "that dam ol dawg" and never look anything but manly ..even when i put bows in there "Mutts" hair