[JoshieBoy]

Originally Posted by mypreciouspups

Well I was not going to.. but I will...

I find a lot of people love to get in the attacking mode on YT.. some rarely.. but some always..
So So many on the yorkie forums have such teenie yorkies themselves that I find it hard to understand why they would even get involved in this kind of thread... wow so many have 3 pound yorkies.. and obviously are not all from this breeder who started this thread..
I do not know this breeder... but I cannot beleive how much she is attacked on here.. I give her kuddo's for actually staying here.. why would she want to..
I am a small hobby breeder that has done what I have done on my very own.. no mentor.. I have had lots of bad luck.. but still learning and trying so hard to do it right..yet I will not make a thread and ask questions on a site with oh so many people..
WHY!!! this thread is why.. do you ask the right thing or the wrong thing.. it is stupid or is it worth asking.. if one does not know then it is not stupid.. but yet so many are made to feel stupid.. sound like a tongue twister.. well I feel this way.. do ya or do ya not.. I opt for the NOT..
I do not feel I would want to be punished for not knowing.. do all breeders know it all when they start.. I think not.. but it is not so much the breeders that are doing the attacking.. but people who do not even no what it is all about.. to me at times.. it seems it is follow the leader..
If a person seems to admire another person on here.. and I have seen this since day one.. then they will agree no matter what..
Well for those who know me some.. know I try to help if I can.. do I get right into it on the forum.. NOPE for there is always some one who has to show they know more..so I pretty much leave those questions for those that can!!
I think it is just sad that there is always so much controvery over the same breeder.. it is like beating a dead horse..
anne

I agree with your comment. I just think we have to be careful how we give advice or voice our opinions. Some posts I have read seem judgmental instead of giving constructive advice or criticism, especially on the first page. People are not going to listen to our opinions if they think we are judging them. Who could blame them for not wanting to continue posting on the thread even if they started the thread. Nobody wants to be torn down by other saying they are a horrible pet owner or breeder. I think we all can learn that we do not have to agree, and the O.P does not have to take your advice. When people get their facts wrong, other people can tell them nicely without attacking them, one upping them, or being judgmental. People might actually listen to what we have to say.