[roxies_mom]

Originally Posted by ranant12

I never post in this section, so first of all I just want to say Hello.

This show is a train wreck that you just can't look away from. The season premiere was so pitiful. Kate is a monster that created the hell her kids now live in. She acted so damn pitiful on the new show. "I took the kids to the store all by myself." (boo hoo) "I am planning this party all alone." (boo hoo) That woman needs a major reality check! I am raising 3 kids by myself. I work every day. I support them financially because their Dad at age 40 just can't manage to 'find a job that suits him'. I can't afford a new car, new clothes, plastic surgery, etc, even though I have worked 15 years as a teacher. Every thing I have goes to my kids. Millions of other women are in the same boat. What makes her so different?

She chose to use her kids as a paycheck. In my opinion, she's no better than some of the mothers I know that have 5 to 8 kids and live off of the SSI checks they get when they manage to get half the kids enrolled in special ed. (Believe me it happens!) She needs to stop whining and get out of the show now before she digs her hole any deeper.

Jon is a spineless little man. He needed ball implants instead of hair implants. He has allowed Kate to disrepect and belittle him in public for years now. Now he choses to sleep around rather than 'Man Up' and demand that Kate treat him like a human. He has no self respect for himself and most of the TV viewers have none for him either. Do you think his son's are learning how to be honest, hard working men from him?

Those poor kids have little to no chance of ever leading normal lives and becoming contributing citizens of our country. They are growing up seeing their parents not working real jobs, and living off of other people's money and donations. They will have no concept of being a hard working, honest human being. Once again, I know this happens every day and is not shown on TV, but most people that do this only screw up 1 or 2 kids, these people are screwing up 8!

The whole situation just makes me so sad. I want to grab those kids off of that show and take them home with me. But I guess then Kate wouldn't have her little money machine anymore.

LOL!! Your post is very good. I love the ball implants comment too! I just want to point out that most of us mom's do go to the grocery store with the kids by ourselves and plan bday parties by ourselves. I even stayed home and raised 4 kids by myself while my DH went out and worked everyday all day. When he came home in the evening I didn't throw the kids at him either. Don't get me wrong we had alot of great times as a family while our kids grew up but everything can't be done together 24/7. It seems to me that alot of men that are hen pecked and don't stand up for themselves are often times the ones that stray (not in all cases but often enough). The only ones you can feel sorry for here are the kids because the parents created it ALL! It takes 2 and you have to have a balance between you to make it work. Old wise saying from Grandma (God rest her soul), "It's between the 2 and the 3rd has nothing to say!" That's the way it should be. But in this case they just keep feeding the media instead of taking the vow of silence on the issue and working through whatever it is they need to in private. I just don't understand these women who want to go and air their dirty laundry in public. Elizabeth Edwards does this too. Aren't you humiliated and hurt enough without the whole world getting in on it. I just don't get it.