Vicky, I sent you a long e-mail that I got from a licensed behaviorist one time when Eddie and Jack were having problems. Actually, they were all Eddie's problems and Jack was the victim.
The situation was a little different than yours because both were neutered and it was clearly a resource guarding issue for Eddie.
I'm not sure it will help, but it's all the advice I have.
Try not to stress. I know you'll make the right decision. If Amelia's safety is at the slightest bit of risk, no one in the world would second-guess you for rehoming if that's what you decide to do.
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