I'm Sorry! I am sooooooo sorry Vicky........sounds like you are living with some awful situations happening between the girls and gracious me if something were to happen with Amelia as an innocent by-stander just happening to be in the same room when the fluffs go at each other........well, it is fearful. I had a female Sheltie and a female minature Australian shepherd mix both spayed. One out weighed the other by at least 20 pounds. They got along for the most part but they had their moments. It was when the door bell rang and they became overly excited or there were times when they would do the stare down and I knew they were about to go at it. I tried everything........and I do mean everything. I would separate them and after only 30 seconds of separation the reunion was pure bliss. Go Figure!!! But needless to say, it was very unnerving.
Personally, I know what it is to rehome a beloved fluff (not an easy decision) but in this case, I just don't know what else you have as an option. I know Toby went through three eight week courses in order for him to be in the same room with other dogs although there were never issues with the three malts he lives with but horrible aggression with other dogs outside his pack.
So even though it probably isn't the answer you want to hear, I would seriously consider rehoming...........you need to think of Amelia and yourself and then the well-being of the fluffs!! Sometimes it just does not work out and I might just add that it might be the fact that they are not spayed has presented some of the aggression issues but understand why you did not do the spaying.
Wishing you the best!!! ((((HUGS))))
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