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Originally Posted by Nikki+2

I've been happily married to my best friend for almost 16 years so I certainly don't fall into the category of thinking that marriages are disposable although I must admit I haven't seen that attitude anywhere in this thread. I think people get disgusted by her nastiness to her husband and her children and I think it's completely justified to feel that way regardless of editing or anything else. If the roles were reversed and John acted like Kate and Kate acted like John that show would be taken off of the air pretty darn quick. Everyone would be screaming emotional abuse if a man were treating a woman that way.

I agree with you completely. I've been happily married as well for over 21 years. Marriage takes work it definitely has it's ups and downs. To me it's well worth it. I would be lost without my husband he is most definitely my best friend. I do enjoy the show I watch it because the kids are so adorable. I've never cared much for Kate's attitude but, I've got to say I have notice some change in her attitude for the better since the show started but, that doesn't say a whole lot.