I know what you mean several years ago when we still had a store front for our embroidery...i had a woman come in and she saw shelby rae who was always there with me ..and she said that shelby looked like a rat...well I handed her back her stuff and money and told her we didn't want her business and I asked her to leave my shop...she was mad but I refuse to work for someone who has that opinion of my baby girl..I say put your sil

her in her place too..