I know the problem but am not sure of answer. We have three cats, one girl and two boys. We have had Snoopy our little furball for only 3 weeks. We were supervising, but the youngest boy cat (Kitty) came in and before we could act had given Snoopy a clout (cooked chicken was involved and Kitty would kill for that
) so now Snoopy gives ALL cats a wide berth and is only mildly interested in cats and just carries on playing. However, Kitty, who is 'king pin' of the household looks to be stalking Snoopy and we are worried he is going to have another go at Snoopy. We are keeping eye on the situation, but I know how you feel, cos I also feel that I am neglecting cats, especially playtime with them, as Snoopy gets really jealous if I play with them. Am not sure if I should tell Snoopy off if he gets jealous as I feel it is teasing him to play with cats while he is in room, but the alternative is segregation. Has anyone sorted this problem???