Well, I've been married 32 years, so, times have changed. But, I would invite him for dinner at your house, this way he can have a home cooked meal, and it will be on you. I know men when I was growing up, were brought up to pay for everything, but, times have changed, and I have seen women paying for men, and vice versa. My sons and their g-friends, fiance, take turns paying, which is fine these days. He sounds like a very nice young gentleman, and I hope and pray that he is able to find work soon. good luck, sounds like he's a keeper |