I think it's great that you're thinking everything through (unlike I did..hehe). So here's what I would do if I were in your position (by no means am I an expert, just learned from my own example). I would hold off. Not only does the pup need a stable home, but time and money. Puppies already have a hard time adjusting, and they cry A LOT at night. I was up with Coco every hour and a half (like a real baby) for a month. It just depends on how much you and your boyfriend are willing to sacrifice. I am just being honest, not in any way trying to dissuade you. It's a huge responsibility. One way to think about it: If you are ready for a human baby, you are ready for a yorkie. Monthly it doesn't cost a lot to care for them, but as puppies, initially it does cost. You have to get them their routine shots and checkups every couple of weeks which adds up in the hundreds within a couple of months. Figure that until he has all of his shots you will be spending at least $70 every couple of weeks for shots and worming, and about $20 a month for food, and maybe about $100 the first initial week for necessities (nutrical, toys, bowls, blankets, puppy pads, ect.). If you get that particular little boy, he will PROBABLY (not sure) be a crier since he's already timid. Coco was super playful and happy and loved strangers but still cried terribly at night. I, personally, would prefer a lively and rubust puppy that can hold his own. However, health wise I'm sure he's ok, especially since you're getting him vet checked by the breeder. I work full time and Coco is at home by herself for the 8-9 hours I'm gone. She does great! No crying when I leave or anything. I put a baby gate in the kitchen with puppy pads, toys, food and crate. It's all about what they are used to. But when I get home, I am allllll hers. I've basically given up my social life for her. If I go ANYWHERE, she comes with me. Like I said, if you're ready for a human baby, you're ready for a yorkie. If you don't think your B/F would make a good daddy to the yorkie, or wouldn't know how to take good care of him, I would recommend you teach him all the essentials before you get one. Hope this helps and goodluck. |