I have been married for 28 years this coming July and dated Ronald for 5 years prior to that, so I might not be the best person to answer the question.... but here goes anyway.
I would do a combination of keeping quiet and letting him pay and occasionally asking to "help" when it feels right to do so. Men have different emotional needs than women and it sounds like one of your man's needs is to be able to fiancially take care of his "woman". Don't do anything that will threaten him or that will hurt his pride. |