[cj125]

My daughter is going through a very similar situation. Her's differs in that the girl that her guy friend is dating has a guy for a best friend - and that's ok. My daughter has been best friends with this guy for a couple of years - they did everything together and when he started dating this girl - they all went together. She's always had a group of friends that meet up or even go on trips together. It's just sad that it happened the way it did.

I've always told my kids that it's good to have friends of both sexes... sometimes the opposite sex is a better friend. I think it's hard for some people to believe that there's nothing sexual going on.

There's a lady at work that walks with her friend during her breaks. Everyone calls him her "boyfriend" but it's not like that. It's really irritating that 2 people can't be friends without people assuming that something else is going on. You can tell when there's more to it.

I agree with Debra's post too but I just wanted you to know that I understand.