I'm so sorry I missed this earlier. Please try not to worry. You are doing a great thing for Oliver. In any other generation, Oliver would be doomed to being crippled for the rest of his life. You're giving him a chance -- a good chance at that. Modern surgery is amazing, and you're taking full advantage of it for Oliver.
I went through the same anguish with Jack a couple times, and I never regretted a second, or a penny, of it. And, believe me, Oliver will know you did it all for him out of love. You'll be closer to him than ever before because he'll know you were there for him in a tough time.
Sending happy thoughts for Oliver and your family.
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