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Old 05-03-2009, 08:29 AM   #41
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Originally Posted by Akbritt View Post
WOW! I cant believe that someone whom you thought was a friend...came on to your property and kicked your baby..for barking. That is the most ridiculous reason i have ever heard to hurt a dog. I hope little Bogey wasnt hurt by this Jerk! I would be cautious of this person the next time he comes on to your property. If it ever calms down to where you can talk to him...i would explain that these dogs are very small...and easily injured...and to think about how small "his" children are...and that Bogey weights as much as a newborn baby...and the thought of someone kicking something that small...how easy it would be to seriously injure or kill something that tiny. I am very sorry this happened to Bogey, and i would be very angry as well.

As for the screaming and yelling coming from his house, the next time that happens where it is really apparent, i would call the police for a disturbance of the peace. BUT dont make the allegation that he is beating his wife and children if you havent seen it. Couples fight...its true...most dont make it so loud that the whole neighborhood can hear it...but couples fight! His wife sounds like she works her tail off, working and trying to raise a family....you dont want to punish her and her children, by have her children taking away from her if there isn't any child abuse in the home.
If there is child abuse in the home, when the police come to investigate the disturbance...they will take in to fact that its a possibility and investigate it themselves. With so many calls...THEY WILL INVESTIGATE THEM, DSS WILL GET INVOLVED. And besides you dont want to get sued for slander, if they can prove themselves innocent. But if you see definite child abuse do report it..just dont make allegations.

I agree that this man, needs some kind of professional help, and i hope he gets it.
I do not think they are beating their kids by any means and that is not an allegation that I am trying take make. They fight, scream and yell at each other over the care of their kids. You take her I am tired type of thing. But it will roll out into the driveway at any hour of the day or night. They put the kids to sleep by driving around in the car~what desperate parent hasn't done that BUT you do not need to scream at the top of your lungs while and drop the "f bomb" while doing it! If you need to load your kid into the car at 2 am you do it quietly because you have neighbors that might be sleeping 20 feet from where you are standing and screaming. She yells because she is frustrated because she if tired and I can sympathize. He yells at HER because she is yelling at him. But in the middle of all of this are their babies. Then he has the nerve to say that my dogs bark and wake up his kids! He's NUTS!

My husband just confessed that after I went into the house the moron actually said that I owed him an apology. Sorry but the truth hurts and I don't apologize!
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