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Originally Posted by celstu1  Does this man work? IF so, I'd try to get a restraining order... stay living where you are now and get him thrown out and have to at least pay the rent. Is your child his also? He does not help with the bills for his college? Can you apply to jobs in different parts of the country and move your son and yourself? I feel soooo bad for you, this is a terrible situation to be in. I can only think of things like a shelter for battered women or getting HIM out of the house instead of you. Please be careful what you put in a public forum also... there are ways to get websites you've been to off your computer and you could find yourself in even more trouble. Be safe! |
Yes, this person does work, but manages to take every penny I get from unemployment so I never have any money. I can't live here without his help. My son is not his either. It's been rough raising this little big man on my own. Children are not cheap, nor do they come with instructions. He is, however, very grounded, and still has his first job with Petsmart (2.5 years), but even his hours have been cut severely due to the economy. He is also doing very well in college and is not aware of what I go through. I hide it very well. Also, together, we don't make enough to live anywhere in this very expensive part of Florida, and moving to another state is something that is do-able, but only with savings to do so. I would love to pick up and leave. I did seek assistance from a woman's group in the area, and at least I am beginning to establish a plan and have documented all his information in case something happens to me. I thank God for my YT friends and will keep you updated as things progress.