It sounds like you are very resentful towards your son for not appreciating the things you buy or do for him. If I were in your shoes, and I know this sounds harsh, but maybe tell him to find his own part time job to pay for all his things. I would tell him exactly how I feel, then quit providing. The only way people really realize what they have is when they lose it, even if it is temporary.
You really shouldn't be working your butt off and sacrificing so much just to be treated like crap. I guess in my opinion, if someone is taking advantage of me or using me, they have another thing coming.
__________________  Heather, mommy to  Drake (7 yr old son),  Triss (yorkie),  spike (dachshund),  ash and misty (my cats), and a baby on the way due Oct 1st!  |