After the last 2 I was in and ended up doing most of the work I inform people I would be glad to come but I will never be in a wedding party again. I almost had a heart attack the last time caused by a person just like you're having to deal with so I refuse to put myself under that kind of stress again.
I would tell the bride exactlly what's happening in as calm and precise a manner as possible You aren't tattling on anyone, you are informing the bride of possible problems later on. If she knows she may be able to take care of it or switch things around in time.
Good Luck...... |