I don't think it is right, but she can probably be held blameless as she claims opeing it was accidental (which I would not believe for a minute either). But the Insurance pharmacy is in huge violation of HIPPA for inadvertently divulging medical information on your husband. There is law that makes this a crime even if it is unintentional. So, they could be held liable. If this does cause problems with ongoing litigation, might want to discuss with the lawyer about that. I doubt she could use information she obtained by opening the package in court, but I am no lawyer and am just guessing.
I don't think anyone should be making light of this. When there are divorce, remarriage, children issues going on it is always serious. Sometimes small things can cause BIG trouble. If you have never been on the receiving end of a spiteful ex-wife, count your blessings. I understand the concern but there probably is no way to make her pay for opening the mail accidently mailed to her address. Hope it all works out for the best for all of you! |