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Originally Posted by DvlshAngel985  I will say one thing that you might want to consider... if she really is having such a hard time with her bf and really truly likes to share with you, it's kinda hard to open up with someone that is rubbing a great, fun, exciting new relationship in their face. When I got dumped by my last boyfriend I was truly heartbroken. At the same time my bestfriend was starting a new relationship. She new I was having a hard time and invited me for breakfast before school to talk. Well guess who showed up for breakfast.... yup, her new bf. They were hugging and giggling and making puppy eyes at each other the whole time reminding me what I had just lost, at least it seemed that way at that moment anyway. That hurt, it really did. She wasn't being insensitive on purpose she just wasn't thinking. Anyway, 4 years later no harm done, I was the maid of honor at her wedding and she probably be my maid of honor too..
Man I talk (type) WAY too much!!! Take your time, take in everyones advice, and then decide how to approach the situation. Good luck!!! |
Ugh... I had a friend do that to me... I was dumped by a long term boyfriend and was devestated.. a week later my friend took me out to "cheer me up" with her boyfriend, then they parked the car and did just about everything but sleep with each other in the backseat. It was disgusting, annoying, and hurtful. I was fighting back tears and I just wanted to walk home even though it was late at night.
Anyways, to the OP, just try and talk to her and explain your POV. I agree that if it's YOUR car YOU should be able to listen to what YOU want, but maybe try to put on something that both of you can agree on just to be nice. Tell her you feel like she's using you for car rides and stuff. I was the first one out of my friends to get my license and they always used me too. It got old really fast.