OK...I'm 55, so I've been around the block a time or two & I have some advice for you. This American vs Spanish thing...your girlfriend is a racist....not good. Telling you how you should live your life...your girlfriend is controlling....not good. I'm going to guess that she finds fault with a lot of things...insecure....that will suck the life out of you.
These things are not worth it. It's ok to drop 'girlfriends' just like we've dropped boyfriends. It's not always easy or pleasant but sometimes, it needs to happen.
As I look back on my life... girlfriends may not agree with what we are doing but they support us & if we screw up, they are there to help us pick up the pieces. If your LIFE is in danger...girlfriends should speak up...but that's rare. Respect yourself enough to say enough.
I wouldn't be 21 again for anything..y'all have a lot to deal with. Be strong! |