If this "friend" is making you feel bad or feeling like you have to explain yourself or not do things you enjoy such as eating rice, listening to whatever music you choose in your own car I'd say there's a problem. Last I heard this is America and it's supposed to be a free country! If she's making you uncomfortable about your boyfriend and any other area in your life and you've tried to talk to her and explain how her attitude and the things she says makes you feel bad then I'd distance myself from her. She obviously has a problem with you dating this guy (jealousy or she's a controll freak over you or something) by shutting you down everytime you do anything that's reminds her that you might be doing it because of him. I personally could never stand having friends that are on my butt about something I was doing or that had to be with me every free minute they had. You need to have your own life and be free to make your own decisions. Making our own decisions is how we learn. If that decision was a mistake then we learn from it and move on. Friends are supposed to be there to support you no matter what you decide. For a friend that asks you for allot of advice, she sure is good at handing unwanted advice out. Good luck with this but I'd have personally had enough of her already.
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