Your daughter looks so beautiful in the picture! It's all done and over now and probably not allot you can do now exept hope that your new son-in-law doesn't think your aways there to foot a bill. My daughter was supposed to get married last October. Luckily in the month of June she had big second thoughts and came to us crying and upset that she coudn't go through with it. With the family that guy has we were relieved. He was becoming quite controlling of her and I'm so glad she saw the light. We now have her whole wedding attire. I'm having it preserved for the day she finds the right guy. We lost allot of deposit money but figured it was probably nothing compared to what it would have been to get her out of a messy divorce sitution. DD's ex's family was good at adding to the list of invites and never offered up anything. We knew we'd end up paying for ALL of it. Just hope now that your daughter will be happy and know in your heart that you did all of this for her and no one else. You wanted her day to be special and that's why even though you were upset you did it anyway. Look to happier days and keep peace for the sake of your daughter and any future grandbabies. That's what's important, not the money. It's sad the way it worked out and I don't blame you for being upset. You can come here and vent if you need to. Wishing you peace of mind from here on out!
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