Well I have the answer, I called the cleaning company, they use amonia to clean thier tools and hose's after each day work, after speaking to a person at petsmart they told me amonia is an attractant and that it was probally in the water they used to clean the carpets and they have heard this story many many times... he told me to get 2 spray bottles of natures miracle and put a fine mist over every area that was steam cleaned and let it dry and do it again... so far so good... but I thought that was a big FYI for everyone... so basicly my house smelled like a litter box to her...
, she has NOT ever had an accident on my rugs prior to the rugs getting cleaned so it was the amonia in the cleaning products they used..