awww mommy... tater tot loves all her attention!
When my Dex got fixed he turned into the little monster prince that he remains today. I am convinced if I didn't baby him 150% for 3 days he wouldn't be AS needy as he is today! LOL I would give her what she'll eat for now. Its only been a couple days, at least you won't need to worry too much. I would ask hubby to stay home tonight and watch Tat and you go visit your brother with a bottle of wine and a small cake. Sounds like you both could use each others company!
As long as Tat is safe, warm, with daddy, fed and watered, she will be fine for you to leave for a couple hours to visit your brother. I think he needs you tonight!
As for little miss cutie tat.. the more we give in, the more they want. She might have to cry in her bed in for a bit while mommy takes care of herself!
You're doing great Brooke!! Shes a lucky little girl!