Unfortunately I am not a breeder and have no advise to offer the OP. And considering she's been suspended anyway, I guess it doesnt matter. I just wanted to comment that after reading this entire thread, it was sad to see that a person came on YT for advise and barely got any

Most of the posts were being very judgemental rather than helpful and that's just crazy. I understand that this is a public forum and we all have the right to our opinions, but really...some of us dont understand the power of words. The harshness of our society, is the reason why we have so many problems to begin with

Is it so hard to help one another, rather than hurt one another??