Boy, I feel your pain. Bonnie is so sweet looking, but not very loving. I am very sad too, that Bonnie doesn't give me the affection that I really want from her. She will sit in my lap, but not for long.
She is happy to see me when I come home, but is not a big kisser.
She is too nosey, and too busy to sit still and be a baby. I am hoping that will change as she gets older
But being independant has its perks, no seperation anxiety. LOL