Do you think that money could be behind all this then? I wonder if DD was planning to take Bella back, let her become unhappy, and then offer her back to you ....at a price? She (or probably the boyfriend) may see this as a way of making money out of you, because they know you are attached to Bella. My heart goes out to you, having your daughter behave in this way. Hope you can make her see sense, although it sounds unlikely. Prayers and thoughts are with you.